natirips wrote:
Some of us (including me) are against homosexual (I still use the word "gay" as a nice and fluffy word as in it's original meaning*) marriage because they don't need marriage as they cannot have
children by themselves, thus every child they would have would be either adopted or a bastard child. You can have/do both without the marriage. Marriage here would only complicate things.
Yes I could imagine that it would be wierd to grow up in a community where you are a child of a homosexual cuple, but since I believe science that homosexuality is given at birth I would not worry that the child is influenced in a "wrong" way. Well at least not worse than any other parents could.
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*For example, I refer to myself as gay, but hot as a homosexual as I happen to be attracted towards opposite (or perhaps "complementary" would be a better word) sex.
I don't oppose that use of the word, and I think if not taken out of context the word can be understood correctly in any sentence.
Just like retarded, if not taken out of context one can clearly see if the word is used as a description or insult. I don't use it as a insult but only because I like other paraphrases.
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Idea of marriage (as I see it) is to clearly allocate your mate, in order to respect the genetic pool.
Without that, (i.e. like cats reproduce with a different mate every time) it would increase the probability of inbreeding**, which in humans is not good.
Now days it also brings allot of different advantages, like less taxes, easier to enter country when one part of the couple is in there already etc.
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Since members of a homosexual pair are clearly not going to have children with one another, they do not need to allocate themselves as a mating pair => they don't need marriage (it would be meaningless).
Well as I said it could come with other reasonable advantages.
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**What I mean is: you normally have a family tree, but if every child you make would be with a different person things would become messy. So when a person is looking for a mate, they usually make sure the two are not closely related. With a messy "family" tree it would be difficult (if not impossible) to tell how closely related you are to someone.
Since "mating" with a cousin is legal in some country's there already is a problem here and there. But I fully agree with your reasons why homosexuals don't need to get married, I am just saying that there are other good reasons why the should be able to get married.
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And I also want to say that a bastard child is totally innocent just like any other child. And if more children get adopted it would certainly be a financial benefit for a country. Maybe homosexuals should be able to get married under the circumstance that they adopt a child.