Sad video

[eXtr33m]

Watch this vid @ Youtube (new Window)
Rly? I ask one question. Who is the most responsible person for what a child becomes?
I am disgusted that so many ppl agree with him.

[natirips]

I agree with most of what he said, except I don't agree with the end (shooting the laptop? srsly?).

[eXtr33m]

Well I hope you don't agree that he should bully his daughter, just because he couldn't raise her?

And shooting the notebook, that was just a show of what emotional maniac he is

[natirips]

This is not bullying, posting the video AFTER destrying the laptop was the her way of doing things (posting a letter to her parents and not allowing the to read it).

And the chores he mentioned REALLY aren't that hard.

But I do think that he's overreacting.

[eXtr33m]

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Again answer just one question, WHO has the responsibility for a child becoming idiot?
Ye, that notebook was more intelligent than him.

[natirips]

A child becoming an idiot has many reasons: TV, Internet, parents, school, newspapers, ADs, etc etc etc.

In fact, I am surprised by how many intelligent people are left in this brainwashed world.

[eXtr33m]

And who let the child watch excessive TV, believe everything on the Internet, do stupid things at school, etc. etc. ?

I am an slight optimist Well maybe because it's only one way from stupid -> wise, other way it's not rly likely to happen.

[natirips]

And who let the child watch excessive TV, believe everything on the Internet, do stupid things at school, etc. etc. ?

To quote myself:

A child becoming an idiot has many reasons: TV, Internet, parents, school, newspapers, ADs, etc etc etc.

[AimMe]

And who let the child watch excessive TV, believe everything on the Internet, do stupid things at school, etc. etc. ?

I am an slight optimist Well maybe because it's only one way from stupid -> wise, other way it's not rly likely to happen.

About TV, it's true. But schools can leave huge (and negative) effect on child. And worst is, that child must go to school. Main problem is, that even the best behaving and most intellegent kids get under influence of bad behaving kids. At least here, educational system encourages bad behaviour, so most kids get spoiled. Good behaving kids are called "geek" "nerd" or other funny names, and bad behaving kids are cool, as they have guts to say "fuck off" to teacher, who is powerless, because all that teacher can do is to give him worst grade and send him to principal. Kid won't get banned, since elementary school is essential and everybody has to finish it. So kids abuse their position, and get worse and worse. Others "normal" kids see those "cool" kids and get into their influence, those worst kids became bosses, and they bully those who are too smart to follow them - best behaving kids. Mostly, even this kids will get broken once, and will "join" those "cool" kids -> you get grade of little devils. Kids learn to swear, they don't respect elders, think they are strongest in the world etc. At first they are like that only in school, but then everywhere with friends, then at home, and in the end that bad manners take over in every part of kid.
Parents, who were working their best for sake of their "little angel", can't do anything to stop him being retarded kid. Moreover, in most cases they believe their kid rather then teachers, so it's never kids fault he got worst grade, but teachers. Sometimes, parents even dare to yell at teachers because their kid got bad mark. But good parents can only try to keep kid "civilised" when they are with them, at home. As parents work long hours, that time is very short. If parents work from 8 to 16, and kid is in schoold from 13:30 to 18, parents are with their kids from 18 to when the go to sleep, lets say 22, that is 4 hours/day. Kid is in school 4 and half hours, and watch TV/surf on internet 2 hours (from 10 to 12), so basically, he spends more time in day with bad people than with good people.
System makes kid stupid and selfcentered. Those kids will never be in harmony, so they'll stay like that in future. This way, you get population of people who will never be agreed, and who will be unable to create critical mass which will say "no" to polititians. So polititans like that system, and they try to keep it like that.

Only people who are really strong in spirit, and who are able to ressist all negative influances by themself manage to keep their own "me", and in the and only they are able to think later in life. But that is small number of people, who can't do anything against media, politions and brainwashed mass od people.

To sum it up, system through schools destroy people at time they are weakest and mose insecure, to create nation they can easily control. You can't blame kid or parent. In this video for example, both kid and parent have done their own mistakes, but both are sill right in some things. I can imagine that parents watch their dauther clean with smile while they are resting, and i can imagine that girl complain on every single task they give to her. Sill, i can see that girl do her jobs, and i can see that parents giving her all things she wants (except free time of course).

[wurst]

impressive father-like hat btw.
however, ist the fist time that teenage kids and parents tell things about each others.
they call it intergenerational conflict.